There is a word here in Uganda with which I have become
well-acquainted. Little kids, boda-boda drivers, and other perfect strangers
will holler it at me from the side of the road, and during my first couple of
weeks here it made squirm every time:
Translation? WHITE PERSON.
Coming from America, where race is nowadays largely glossed
over for the sake of anti-discrimination and common courtesy, it has been an
adjustment for me to get used to the blunt way that Ugandans address the issue
of race and other physical attributes. It is not that they are intentionally
rude, but they just tend to “tell it
like it is.” For example, it is not uncommon for a Ugandan to point out a
change in your weight, a pimple on your face, or a fashion faux pas. On the
same token, they also do not hesitate to tell you when you are looking “smart”
(aka- nicely dressed), which is an important compliment in a culture that
emphasizes being presentable in public. Either way, Ugandans say what they mean
and mean what they say!
At first, I was taken aback by such honesty. I mean, can you
even imagine a similar scene in America? If a muzungu pointed and shouted:
“MEXICAN! MEXICAN!” from the side of the road, I think that most Americans would
probably find it totally insensitive.
Why? Because it’s drawing attention to someone’s status as a minority, which
could easily be misinterpreted as some kind of racial hatred. Now, don’t get me
wrong, I’m not saying that there is anything bad about being a minority. In fact, I am a big fan of
multiculturalism! My point is that, due to the combination of the American
obsession with equality and the history of racial tension in our country, white
Americans tend to tip-toe around the
issue of race (and to even consider race an “issue” in the first place) –
which is why Uganda has been a shock to my system in this arena.
{{Statue of the current King of Buganda (kind of like the original version of Uganda), Kabaka Muwenda Mutebi II! From a field trip to the kingdom headquarters last week.}} |
The fact that I would
be in the minority here was simply not something that I had anticipated in
advance. (And when I say minority, I mean M-I-N-O-R-I-T-Y!! Outside of the
study abroad students, I have seen a total of 6 muzungus in all of the places I
have visited combined – including the capital city!) Because of this surprise – along with my
academic study of the negative impacts of colonialism and the history of unintentionally
oppressive Western missionaries in Africa within the first 3 weeks of this program
– I initially felt terribly isolated and uncomfortable
in my own skin. Not only did I suddenly become acutely aware of my race
upon entering Uganda, but I also felt very self-conscious about Ugandans’
perceptions of me. In addition to the race factor, I was especially disturbed
by the general quietness of Ugandans,
thinking that I would never be able to be my true (loud…) self here.
“Do they think that I have some kind of hidden agenda here as a Westerner? Are they still bitter about the
damage that white people have done to their country, and are they indirectly blaming me for it? Is there any way I
can possibly serve here effectively with the stigma of being a muzungu following me around everywhere? WILL I
EVER MAKE FRIENDS ?!?” During the first couple of weeks, these were the
thoughts that raced through my mind each time that I left the comfort of the
study abroad program quarters and ventured out into the unknown sea of
beautiful black faces on campus or in my community.
Now that I have been in Uganda for a month, however, my
racial anxiety has decreased significantly. I still do not enjoy being called
muzungu, but I understand now that the intense negative connotation I had been
associating with it was my own
misperception. I am still not convinced that term is completely neutral in
all circumstances, but in many cases it is, in fact, merely a descriptor – and
therefore nothing Uganda get upset over ;). I also understand now that just
because Ugandans are generally more reserved in nature than Americans (especially
the crazy ones like me… 0_o), it does not mean that true friendship is not possible between us. It has definitely taken
me more time to make friends here than I expected, but I am especially
beginning to feel the seeds of kinship take root in my relationships with my
host brothers and my internship colleagues, in particular (I’ll fill you in on
my internship soon!!).
Another thing that my new exploration of race has helped me
to realize is just how much I appreciate
the “melting pot” that is America. There are a lot of things about America
that I have problems with, but this is something that I think is truly worth
celebrating. I didn’t realize how much I have taken the multi-cultural nature
of our country for granted until I came here to Uganda, where a far fewer
number of ethnicities are represented. (From what I have gathered, there are
small groups of people from other African countries here – mostly the neighboring
ones like Kenya and Sudan – but the vast majority of the population is Ugandan,
through and through.) The fact that in America we have people from all different cultural backgrounds in
our own backyard is a unique blessing! I believe that it enriches every aspect
of our society, and that it is a small reflection of John’s description of
heaven in Revelation 7:9:
{{Rodgers cooking up some beef (African style!) for a friend's graduation party...with the biggest spoon I have ever seen in my life!!}} |
(Now, that’s not to say that America is in any way
spiritually superior to a less multi-cultural country. It’s just something that
I like to think about. :) )
So, what is my point in telling you all of this in the first place? My hope is that in sharing
some of my emotional ups and downs as a minority here in Uganda, you will be
able to better empathize with the
plight of whatever “minorities” may be in your own sphere of influence. In this
sense, I’m not just talking about race. I mean anyone who may feel isolated because they are different. Maybe it’s
the single mom in your workplace who can’t ever go out for happy hour with the
rest of you because she has to get home to her kids. What can you do to bring
the party to her? Maybe it’s your college classmate who feels lonely and
disoriented because he’s an upperclassmen transfer. How can you warmly welcome
him into your campus community? Maybe it’s the elderly woman in your church who
never gets any visitors anymore because her adult children live far away. When
can you glitter Sharpie her into your social calendar?!? Maybe it’s the deaf
child in your neighborhood who doesn’t have many friends because people are shy
about trying to communicate with him. Why don’t you find a way to break the
ice?
After all, this is exactly
what Jesus Christ calls people to do, and he was the best befriender of
marginalized people in all of human history! In all the Bible stories about his
life, we constantly see him hanging out with the people that no one else cared
to be around. Though he was popular and powerful, he had no problem associating
himself with the prostitutes, the thieves, the lepers, the widows, and yes, the
ethnic minorities. His mission was to “seek and save” not the confident people
who have it all together, but the lost.
(Luke 19:10) At the end of time, our attitudes and actions towards “the least of these” will be a
determining factor in our eternal destiny, for:
{{Members of the Ndere Dance Troupe performing traditional Ugandan dance in flying colors!! Best field trip so far!}} |
"When the Son of Man comes in his glory, and all the angels with him, he will sit on his glorious throne. All the nations will be gathered before him, and he will separate the people one from another as a shepherd separates the sheep from the goats. He will put the sheep on his right and the goats on his left. Then the King will say to those on his right, ‘Come, you who are blessed by my Father; take your inheritance, the kingdom prepared for you since the creation of the world. For I was hungry and you gave me something to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink, I was a stranger and you invited me in, I needed clothes and you clothed me, I was sick and you looked after me, I was in prison and you came to visit me.’ Then the righteous will answer him, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you something to drink? When did we see you a stranger and invite you in, or needing clothes and clothe you? When did we see you sick or in prison and go to visit you?’ The King will reply, ‘Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me.’" –Matthew 25:31-40
I encourage
you to be intentional about reaching out to the minorities in your life this
week, whoever they may be – because I can now tell you from experience that
even just the smallest gesture of friendliness can go a long way in making them
feel welcome. Invite the stranger in, and you yourself will be blessed!!
{{Me and my youngest brother, Kisaakye! His name means "grace" in Luganda. :) }} |
Welp, that’s
all for now, folks! I’m heading out of town this weekend to a city in northern
Uganda called Gulu. We will be visiting non-profit organizations that help with
rehab for child soldiers and other victims of the civil war that took place in
that part of the country for many years. I’ll let you know what I learn when I
get back! :)
Until then,
be good to yourself and be good to everybody else!
Thanks for
caring,
Kelsey Jo
You look very smart in the first photo :)
ReplyDeleteYou are such a little minister! You are so good at picking up on your surrounding culture, making connections between key concepts, and then turning that into application. I felt like I just read an article in a journal of missions or cultural studies. You could be a preacher/writer someday :)
:') loved it kels !!!<3
ReplyDeleteLove, love it!! <3 Happy birthday princess :D
ReplyDeleteHi Kels!! I hope you are having such an amazing time. I love reading about your adventures, and I LOVE your hair. Girl, you look like Shakira or something. I love it. So much. I can't wait to see you when you return and hear about everything. Keep spreading your shine all over!
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